As I am getting older and now I am 23, yes! I am 23 where I have been getting through my 4 and half years as someone’s girlfriend (OMG! I didnt expect I can last for a relationship this long!). During my secondary school, I planned to know my future husband one year prior to our marriage and now it’s already been 4 years and half! Haha. Hmm. Hopefully it’s gonna last for five years before our wedlock.
As I was getting through final semester in UPM, I learned a lot things in ‘Undang-undang keluarga Islam’ course. Marriage in Islam is simple, equal and it has an awesome laws. We humans make it as complicated and difficult. Some people doesn’t want to be burdened by the responsibilities. For me, marriage is great because it enables many things; HALAL hubungan, continue the generations and so forth.
HALAL hubungan is very crucial. If a not-yet-married-couple now kissing, hugging and doing sinned, how about their next generation? I am pretty sure with the article I’ve read couple of weeks ago and more or less, it sounds like “anak-anak yang dilahirkan akan membuat dosa yang lebih daripada kedua-dua ibu-bapanya sebagai balasan kepada pasangan tersebut”. I like this point. I strongly hold to this point to take care of myself and my future kids. This sentence makes me realized that I dont want my future children knowing guys/girls then simply start kissing and hugging and doing the things out of mind with no advocates in marriage.
I know some of people might think I have conservative thinking but this is the only way to avoid the statement I just read from Munirah Hishamshah’s facebook where “1 baby out of marriage bound is born every 18 minutes in Malaysia”. Nauzubillah. Sometimes things like this happened because even their parents dont mind what their daughter/son do; “ala, diorang dah besa, pandai2 lah fikir” and the problem is they dunno how to think properly! Last week me and my friends went for BBQ at my friend’s house and I was shocked there was a woman with pyjama in that house whereas it is guys’ house; and my other friends said adultery is normal in that place. OMG! What’s going on now? I couldnt understand. Plus, my friend told me she even did an abortion before. Is it really ‘an abortion’ or ‘some abortion’? Wallahualam 
Really sad.
Alhamdulillah, until now, I am very grateful since I get to know a really nice guy that never take me for granted and we already made a deal years ago to wait until our wedding to do everything in HALAL ways. I hope our relationship will last till the end, it is hard to know other people again. I’ve read in a book entitled “Pemilik Cintaku Setelah Allah dan Rasulullah”, if people said that he/she is having a great love, she/he is totally telling a lie. There is no great love until you are declared as husband-and-wife. Anyway, I cant wait for that ‘great love’. 4 years and half is too long. Hm btw, ada google baju pengantin nie. Hihi. Cantik! I love silver/grey damn much. Cantik kan ni? 
Cantikkkkkk kaaaaannn
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